Ray J just dropped one of the wildest and most honest stories the culture has heard in years. In this intense and NSFW moment, he recounts being sexually abused by his babysitter as a child—an experience that would forever change how he views sex, power, and women. The R&B star goes deep into how that trauma sparked his obsession with bigger women, not just physically, but emotionally and psychologically.
From crazy hookups to therapy through sex, Ray J shares a perspective rarely heard in hip-hop—raw, flawed, and real. He even describes trying to “reclaim control” by sleeping with women larger and more dominant than himself. What starts as wild storytelling turns into a deeper reflection on unresolved pain, masculinity, and the cost of survival in a culture that often suppresses vulnerability.
It’s uncomfortable, controversial, and impossible to ignore—an explosive revelation that’s got the streets, blogs, and barbershops buzzing.
